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Why Haven't I Met My SoulMate Yet?

By Annette Vaillancourt | Submitted On August 14, 2014

Why is love so elusive? Where is my SoulMate? Is there somebody out there for me? Why haven't I found him/her yet?

Is this you?

You are looking for a deeper, more profound connection than you have ever had, but you aren't meeting people on the same wavelength.
You're at an age where you feel the stirring of your soul asking, "Is that all there is?"
You have been dating and notice yourself attracting the same kind of relationship over and over.
You are dating someone and find you are stuck or stalled out, unable to take the next step or second guessing yourself.
You have found someone special, yet you cannot bring yourself to commit.
You want to start dating again, but are still secretly or unconsciously attached to your ex.
You keep getting treated poorly by your partners or lovers and yet can't leave that relationship

The Five Reasons You Are Still Single

Barriers - the fears that keep us from living and loving with our full potential. Examples of such fears include:

"I am afraid nobody will love me like my ex."
"I am afraid I will lose my freedom."
"I am afraid of conflict."
"I hate being vulnerable."

Blocking Beliefs - These are the assumption you hold at a conscious or subconscious level that limit how you view yourself, what is possible for you, and the world of dating, love, sex, marriage and commitment. Examples include:

"There's no one out there for me."
"I am unlovable."
"All the good ones are taken."
"Love must be earned."
"Dating is not fun".
"I don't have to do anything to find my SoulMate."

Blind Spots - These are the aspects of ourselves that we deny or are unaware of and that we either hate or idealize in others. Examples include:

"I am entitled."
"I am needy."
"I am controlling."
"I am a people pleaser."
"I ignore my own magnificence."
"I don't have those talents/skills."
"I am only here to serve, not to receive."

Biography - Our life experiences, memories and past attachments block our SoulMate from coming into our lives. Clearing them magnetizes you and makes your irresistible to your SoulMate. Your biography might be in the way if:

you are still in love with you ex
you have unhealed physical, emotional or sexual trauma
you had a mentally ill, alcoholic or absent parent

Blahs - When you are not living your Purpose, your SoulMate can't find you. When you are in alignment with your Soul's Path meeting your SoulMate is INEVITABLE. You might have a bad case of the Blahs if you think:

Someday my Prince will come
I can't begin my life until I meet someone
I don't know who I am
I don't know why I am here

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Annette Vaillancourt, Ph.D.
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