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My Boyfriend Dumped Me - Controversial Tactics to Get Your Boyfriend Back After He Dumps You

By James A Jin | Submitted On September 12, 2011

One of the most common questions I often receive is this, 'My boyfriend has dumped me. What should I do to get back together with him?'

Well, before I answer the question, I just like to give you a warning. What you are going to learn is probably quite controversial and counter intuitive. However, I do encourage you to have an open mind. With that said, let us continue.

If your ex boyfriend has made the decision to dump you, he is probably playing with your weakness. He is well aware of the fact that you do not want to break up with him and you still love him deeply.

What this means is that your ex boyfriend can easily take advantage of the situation. He can fool around and date other women, yet he is not afraid of losing you. This is because you have put yourself in a lower psychological position.

If that is happening to you, you need to ask yourself why.

Is it because of the way you portray yourself?

Perhaps you have been showing signs of desperation?

Are you calling him too often?

Are you calling him again and again?

Do you think about him all the time?

Are you always waiting for him to call you?

Are you always thinking about what to say when he does call you?

If your answer is yes to most of the questions above, it means that you are showing signs of desperation.

When a woman is too desperate, she will not be able to win her boyfriend back. In fact, she may push her boyfriend further away. Your boyfriend is going to take you for granted since he knows he will be able to get back together with you if he chooses to do so.

Controversial Tactics to Get Your Boyfriend Back

A lot of women made the mistake of trying harder in order to get their boyfriend back. Unfortunately, trying harder is not going to work. It is only going to boost your boyfriend's ego and he is probably not going to take you seriously.

So what you should do is to complete opposite of what you feel like doing. Instead of trying harder, you should stop trying instead!

What you should do is to cut off all contact with your boyfriend. This is also known as the 'No Contact Rule'.

Do not underestimate the effectiveness of this tactic. There are women who managed to get back together with their boyfriend once they started using this tactic.

The reason why this tactic can be so effective is because you are changing the entire situation. Suddenly, your boyfriend realized that you are not so available after all.

There is a saying that 'the fear of loss is usually greater than the pleasure of gain'. Due to the fear of losing you, your boyfriend may suddenly become the one who is chasing you instead.

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