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Want to Know How to Get Your Ex Back?

By Cecil Carraway | Submitted On November 09, 2008

So, you got dumped, did you? Or maybe you did the dumping, only now you're having second thoughts. Whichever it is, you're here now because you want to know how to get your ex back. First of all, relax, take a deep breath, and take comfort in knowing that you aren't alone. We've all been there at one time or another, but some of us have been there so many times that we've actually developed a sound, almost foolproof system for getting an ex back. I am one of those people. But before I show you how to get your ex back, you must ask yourself one very important question:

Do I really want her back?

It sounds like a silly question, I know. The answer is an obvious "Yes, I wouldn't be here if I didn't". But think about it for a moment. Is the answer really that obvious? Sometimes in a relationship, we do things subconsciously to sabotage it because we want out. On some level, we understand the relationship has run it's course, but we just can't force ourselves to do the right thing and end it. As a result, we do things that we hope will force our partner to end it, letting us off the hook. Don't feel bad, it's natural. Change can be very difficult, even when it's the right thing to do.

Before moving forward on getting your ex back, you have to answer this question, and you have to answer it honestly. We all have initial feelings of regret, but are your reasons concrete enough to justify returning to the same person? If they are not, then your time would be better spent on finding someone new, someone you do want to be with instead of someone you're simply used to being with.

If the answer is yes, you truly do want him back, then congratulations, I can help you. And if you're just too hardheaded to listen, and you want her back no matter what, then I can help you too. But don't say I didn't warn you.

Instead of getting your ex back, you might want to get a dog instead. If the dog gets out of hand, you can use a dog shock collar. Get one today, and I'll throw in free shipping.

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