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Simple Steps On How To Get Your Ex Back - Step 1

By Taz Cahn | Submitted On May 10, 2008

Having gone through a break up quite a few times myself I know how painful it can be and depending on how much in love you are with your ex the more agony you go through. You get flash backs of the good times, the times you really enjoyed, and then you have those memories of the not so good times where you fought and argued over silly issues and the issues that lead to your break up.

Regardless of the issues which caused the break up, the thing is that you want your ex back and you want to know how to get your ex back. Well I am going to spill 3 simple steps which I used myself to get my ex back.

The first step you need to take when trying to get your ex back is that you want to be able to agree to the break up. Now what I am trying to say here is that you might not be OK with the break up but you want to make it appear that you are fine with it. You can even take it a step further and say that recently you had been thinking of the same think i.e. break up. What you don't want to do is panic, and start wanting answers from them, forcing them to talk to you even if they don't want to, constantly ringing them, messaging them. These are signs of panic and the more you do this the further your ex will go from you.

Agreeing to the break up will take them by surprise because they thought they were taking the shots and now you have surprised them by revealing that you were thinking about this too or at least you are OK with it. The tables have turned now, and it may well be that your ex will now want some answers as to why you were thinking about this as well.

The first stage may or may not apply to your situation depending on what stage you are at in the break up. But the important point is that the ex needs to be aware that even if they had not broken up with you, they were going to lose you anyway because you were thinking of the break up. Human psychology states that one always wants something one cannot have, so now the want to have you again will arise. Now you are on your way to getting your ex back.

The agony of wanting your ex back is immense, you don't have to go through the pain, you can have your ex back very soon. Check out my website on how to get your ex back where I share my story with you as well.

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