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Getting Your Boyfriend Back If He Left You For Another Woman

By Gillian Reynolds | Submitted On February 14, 2008

One of the most humiliating things that can happen to any woman is the man in her life, the man she adores, leaves her for another woman. It leads to an assortment of difficult feelings including embarrassment, sadness, jealousy and even rage. If that man was the one she envisioned spending her life with, it makes the situation even more difficult. If you are in this situation you may not be ready to throw in the towel of defeat and hand your boyfriend over to another woman. If you aren't, there are ways of getting your boyfriend back even if he left you for someone else.

You likely are going to feel a great deal of resentment for the new woman in his life, but you can't let that show. If you run into the two of them together, be as cordial as you possibly can. Tell her that you're happy to meet her and smile at him. Make him see that you can be mature about the situation. If you do talk to him afterwards and he asks your opinion on his new girlfriend, keep any rude or unflattering comments to yourself. Tell him that you're happy for him and for her. He'll be surprised and in most cases, he'll wonder why you are being so civil. The key is to make him feel as though his new relationship isn't that big a deal to you.

The reason you want to do this is that some men use jealousy as a tactic after a break up. This is particularly true if they still carry strong feelings for their ex girlfriend. They want their ex to react to their new date as it gives them reassurance that she too, still has deep feelings. When you are working at getting your boyfriend back, keep all negative emotions in check. You want to leave him wondering why you are reacting the way you are.

By the same token, don't start dating a great looking guy just to make your ex boyfriend jealous. It likely will cause him to feel that way, but the ramifications of that may not be as positive as you hope. He may feel threatened and he also may mistakenly believe that you got over him too quickly. It's best to focus solely on yourself if your goal is getting your boyfriend back. Since you are working hard to get one man back, involving another just wouldn't be fair.

If he wants to stay in contact, do so but don't go out of your way to initiate that contact. Keep yourself occupied as much as possible. You don't want your boyfriend thinking you are spending all your time waiting for his calls or emails. Continue to live your life as you normally would including going out and having fun with friends.

Once he does decide that you are indeed the girl for him, be certain you address the feelings you experienced when he left. He needs to know how it made you feel and what you expect of him in the future, if he wants to keep you in his life.

There are other conscious steps that every woman needs to take if she wants to get her ex boyfriend back. Doing the wrong thing can mean the end of the relationship forever. Find out what you should and shouldn't be doing from this Helpful Site!

Don't give up on him if you believe he's the man you are meant to be with. There are specific methods you can use that will make you irresistible to him again.

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