Why Won't My Ex Call Me Back? How to Get Your Ex to Talk to You Again

By Gillian Reynolds | Submitted On November 26, 2010

Why won't my ex call me back? You're asking this now because you've been trying in vain to get your ex to talk to you, right? You call and leave him or her message after message to no avail. They don't respond and you're left wondering why. You feel that you're sincere when you leave them a voicemail telling them how much you really miss them and need them. But still you've heard nothing back and it's been days, possibly even weeks now. You must realize that this isn't working and there has to be a better way. There is. You can get your ex back but the first thing you need to do is to stop trying to contact them.

The reason why your ex won't call you back is simple. They don't want to talk to you. It's no more complicated than that. What typically happens in the days following a break up is one person will long to be back with the other while their partner clearly needs time and space. In this scenario you're the person who wants their ex back. You have to respect what your lover wants if you stand any chance at all of even getting them to talk with you again. That's why the phone calls must stop this instant. Delete their number from your cell if you have to. Just do whatever it takes to not pick up the phone to call them again.

You have no idea how dramatic an impact doing that will have on your ex. They will notice within days that you've disappeared. They'll check their cell to make sure it's in working condition and they'll start asking around with mutual friends to see if they can find out what's become of you. When they realize you're fine and you're just leaving them be, that will resonate with your ex. They'll feel both touched and confused by your disinterest. Touched by the fact that you are now giving them the space they need and also confused by the fact that you seem to be over them.

Once a few weeks have passed since your last attempt to talk to your ex, call them again. This time don't talk about the break up or what you've been feeling since. Keep the conversation light hearted and generic. Some good topics of conversation are the weather, current movies and work. Your goal with this call is only to open up the lines of communication again. Once your ex sees that you're not trying to corner them into talking about the relationship, they'll relax and start to open up more.

Your words and actions in the days and weeks following a break up can impact any chance you have of ever getting back together with your ex. One wrong move or word can cost you any chance of happiness with the person you love the most.

Click here to learn exactly how to win them back for good.

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